This one conversation with mom totally convinced me that the one thing I will never settle for in life is someone who simply deflects responsibility for their actions by blaming you and gaslighting and/or playing the victim. Tired of nasty people. Really, completely, utterly tired of them. I can't do it anymore. If people want me in their lives they can bloody well make an effort to be nice. Else fuck off. 

Never again. 

Tathastu.