As you enter the latter part of your 20's the whole 'let's drink here brooooo' lifestyle starts to take on an old feel. I got to a point where I was not only frustrated but also at a loss to understand why the accepted normal was just not cutting it.
- What do I want to build in this lifetime? Family, excellence, providing value? Is there a point of intersection for all goals or should a primary one be the driver?
- If I died tomorrow, would I be happy?
- What kind of person do I want to spend my life with?
- Do I want the responsibility of a family?
- How hard am I willing to work?
- How much responsibility am I willing to take on?
- Where am I feeling burdened, restricted, confined and limited?
- How can I change my life to feel competent, capable, expert and in charge (rather than burdened, etc.)?
- What skills have I developed through my life to date that I can put to work in the world?
- Am I still living out the "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" of someone else (parents, teacher, partners, etc.)? If so, how can I be truer to my inner essence?
- How, where, and to what, do I want to make an enduring commitment?
- If I view this as a time to lay a foundation, what is it I would like to build in the next six to seven years?
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